Being the ex-base brat that I am, I've lived an often nomadic life. There's been 29 or so moves, 10 different schools. It doesn't really bother me much for the most part. I've enjoyed living in various parts of this vast country, and still have aspirations of living on the prairies, and on the coast of BC at some point in my life. Currently I'm checking out the north and what it has to offer for a few years, and following that, likely some international work.
What this nomadic life has done though, is make it tough to keep ties with the past. There are so many different faces from all of those years, particularly as a child in school. Typical base brats made friends easily as we were all in the same boat and most of us had a good group of friends within days of moving in, friendships forging quickly. We all knew we might only have one year together as our parents shifted us from one base to the next, generally 2-3 years between moves. Living through those moves prior to the age of web craze, during times when long distance used to cost a living fortune, our usual way to maintain touch was through letter contact. Often I continued for a few years with one friend or another, but with move after move, we eventually lost touch. I've only been able to maintain 2 relationships with friends I attended school with - one from grades 3-6 and one from grades 7-9 and 12.
That is, until recent efforts on the internet. Initially through Classmates.com but since their fees get in the way of contact for many people, it has had it's challenges. I have reconnected with some old classmates that way, and it's been great. Then came Facebook. Yeah, you've heard of it. It's the new rage sweeping the nation. And it is there that I have begun reconnecting with various stages of my life.
And the point I am beleaguredly attempting to fumble through at this late hour is that living the life I have, it's been difficult at times to define where home is, and to maintain ties to the past. Without such minimal contact until recently with people I went to school with, there is a huge chunk of my life that is remembered to me only by my family members. Now that I've reconnected, it is so refreshing to hear from old school friends and hear their memories of those younger years.
Another challenge I've had for many years is finding friends my own age. I know...sounds real lame ass loser...but it's quite simple. Once I settled down at the tender age of 18 with my much older husband to play house and raise our daughter, I lived for 12 years in a community with not one single person my own age. From there I went to university for 7 years - surrounded by fresh young faces and old fart profs. Following that has been working at agencies where I worked with one person my own age for less than a year. If you haven't gone to school in the area you live, it is often challenging to meet people from your era.
Ok, it's closing in on midnight and I don't think I've made one bit of sense, lol. I guess what I have been trying to say is that I finally feel like I have ties to my past again, that those 18 years in my parents home, living on military bases have rejoined themselves to my life story. That, and gee it's been nice to chat with people who are exactly the same age as me...